I received a question this week:
Q. How do we open ourselves to loved ones who have passed on and receive messages and signs from them?
You open yourself by letting go of the control of how you expect it to look. Your expectations are what gets in your way. Your control of the outcome.
When someone leaves your life physically, they leave your life physically. That means their daily interaction with you is over. Good and bad. So, someone who has been a burden, or what you perceived as a burden, has now released you from that burden. Physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Good interactions don’t relieve you from some burden but are meant to be cornerstones or guiding posts for you to pick up the torch, so to speak, and move forward incorporating what they’ve taught you. They, the deceased person, and you, on a soul level, knew the time was “now” for you to move on without them. Understanding that everything is timed perfectly for your soul’s growth should, hopefully, help you to move on. Grieving is always acceptable, all emotions are acceptable, but moving on, incorporating the good or shedding the negative, is key to accepting death and its timing. Life is not fair, and it is not unfair, it has purpose. You are not punished. No one is taken before their time. Their timing is perfect.
Understanding signs from a deceased person takes consideration of the fact that they both want you to know they are there and they want you to move on. Accept that your loved ones’ energy is there, whether or not you feel it or get the sign you are hoping for. Letting go of the expectation of how or when the sign will appear is a great way for it to appear. When you can accept they are there, with or without a sign, you will get your sign, typically, always, when you least expect it. Acknowledging and thanking them is a sure way for the signs to keep happening.
Don’t hang onto a “sign” as a proof of afterlife, know they are there. They loved you in life, why wouldn’t they love you in the afterlife? In the afterlife they know, even more, what your soul needs and when. Know they are still watching over you and are guiding you in ways you don’t understand, or aren’t aware of. Trust that they have not “left” you, not remotely. They are here for you as much as they ever were, just on a soul level, which honestly is better than in life. They “died” when they did so they could help you more from the soul side. Believe it.
xoxox
Here is a previous post on this same subject: Perspectives on Death
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