From: Back to Being
Not to keep bemoaning the same subject, but why doesn’t the Universe offer more support? I get that I may be creating these hardships, but why would I ever choose this for my life?
…Your life has always and will always be one of surprises, unexpected, last-minute surprises. It is intended that way. One reason is to make it more fun, but the main reason is for you to learn to trust. Just know that “something” will occur and that “something” will never be what you expect. Why? Fun, and the lesson regarding expectations, controlling the hows, and allowing. Accept that, and you’ll never question or have this angst again, and you will just do what you do, knowing that when there is a next move you will make it. Both literally and figuratively. You don’t make things happen; you allow them. That is the lesson, the teaching of this (soon-to-be) book. You are to live it and write about it. It is YOUR experience, that you can so easily write about and turn the lesson and teaching into something fun.
You have all the issues that EVERYONE has. One primary issue is living with the expectations from others, the expectations that others have of you. That’s a big one. How to overcome what “others” think you should do. Status quo issues, like “typical” responses to issues. For instance sending out resumes because it’s the “scripted” thing to do, when you have other options you would prefer to follow, like writing a book, but are afraid to follow that path. Fear is probably the number one issue. Fear of what can or will happen. Or what will not happen. Let’s discuss this fear of the unknown.
There are some fears that you should always adhere to. i.e., do not jump out of a window of a skyscraper and do not walk into traffic or step off a curb in front of a bus. Certain behaviors are bad for your health, i.e. overeating, drinking too much alcohol, smoking cigarettes. Stress is bad for you on many levels. These are known quantities for instance. A healthy fear of the above examples is a good thing. What you should not fear is the unknown future.
First of all, no matter what, you can NOT control the future. Sure you can save money and often, quite often, people are successful with this approach; but also often, people save money and don’t use it to enjoy life, so that’s useless and fear-based. People are afraid of/fear change and will often stay in a horrible job and waste their lives over fear of no income or health benefits. Do you think this “energy” of fear is the LOVE vibration speaking to you? Yes, true, maybe it is a life experience, but you don’t stay there. You overcome by quitting your job and allowing the Universe to provide next steps. That’s where you are. You are waiting for the Universe to provide next steps.
We would advise you not to fear the steps and not to doubt that there will be beneficial next steps. They, the steps, might not be happening as quickly as you would like, but also know they could and will happen when you least expect it and all you should be doing is living your life. No fear. You will have everything you need when you need it. This is true for every single person on the planet. You/they will be provided with the next steps to follow in their journey. There is nothing to fear. Just decide to allow life. Decide it. Truly decide and allow it. You are still at that stage of “thinking” you’ll allow it. But you need to get past that “thinking and doing” part. Allowing is not an act of doing. Doing has nothing to do with it. Allow. Allowing is freedom. Once you allow allowing, you will be free.
xoxoxo
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PS – I should read this to myself everyday so I can remember it! I am sure that is why I found it today to share because I need it the most, but then again, don’t we all?
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